Wade Poe

Timing is important.  Wait just a little too long and it's no longer appealing.  It probably tastes okay - maybe - but it's no longer ideal looking, so you're not sure.   It's true for avocados and personal existence. Our culture seems to ride on appearance.  If not the physical kind, then the "what value do you bring to the moment" kind.  If you're not looking good, you fear being tossed aside as no longer appealing. It's not just about age, it's the whole package. But youth and youthful appearances are important for many.  It's important for those who have neither, naturally.  We spend $$$ not to look like our natural ourselves. And do you have enough skills to keep up with AI?  Do you speak the right way?  Do you know the words to use and not to use?  Do you appear to have success so someone could trust you with their needs? _______________ It's really amazing to see how much is bought and sold over appearances.   Again, it's not...

"Hear ye!  Hear ye!" Some people are just now “getting” what you “got” many years ago.     Others will not “get it” for a good long while in the future.   Some will never “get it”. The nature of information is that way.   Not everyone is an “early adopter”, meaning that when something new comes about, not everyone has access to it or wants it. Some people wait a long time and watch other people interact with it before they decide whether they’ll “get it” or reject it. You name the topic –  religion, politics, race, community issues, specific politicians, cultural changes, justice issues, the environment, fashion, hobbies or past times, technologies, etc  – everyone usually has a different speed at which they hear about something, consider it, and either adopt it or reject it. It can be incredibly frustrating to those who “get it” earlier – to have to watch others take forever to process info and get on the bandwagon about something. ...

One day you'll get a phone call from someone telling you that your loved one has died.   Or maybe you'll actually be there when it happens. One day someone else will get a call telling them you've died. Or maybe they'll be with you when it happens. It's coming. And the world will go on.   You'll be a blip on the radar for a moment and then, except for those close to you, you'll be no more than a footnote or anecdote in someone's random story from years gone by - if you're lucky. So live your life.   Yes, you have to work and find ways to make money and get by, but there's more to life than that.   Go enjoy it.  Enjoy your work.  Enjoy food.  Enjoy the people you watch TV with.  Enjoy all the things. Be in the moments that you have now.   Why say that?  Because there's a temptation to keep living in the next thing and in things that are days or years out from us. There's a temptation to worry about what's next.  And usually worryin...

Which takes more faith?  Trusting that God has already forgiven all your sin forever or believing that he only forgives you as you remember to "ask for forgiveness"? That was probably one of the biggest shifts for me in the last few years - from believing you need to constantly ask for forgiveness to trusting that he's already done so - even for "future sin". That's usually the biggest thing that people want to ask me about - how you can believe that and what that means for your life.   Specifically, what is a person's motivation to "be good" if you're not always "on the hook" to stay prayed up so you can make sure you're always forgiven? __________ In short, it's a different way of seeing "being saved" entirely.  Forgiveness of sins is usually thought of as being the same as being saved, but I don't see it that way anymore. Forgiveness of sins makes salvation possible, but it's not salvation.  Salvation ...

A few years back, "yo mama" jokes were very popular.  You had to be careful to make sure you told them in a clear, joking way so people didn't think you were actually talking about their mom. There was and still is a sense that if you talk about someone's mom or other relative or friend, that you're inviting trouble.  With some, if you insult or talk about their mom, they are considered fighting words. I remember witnessing a few interactions where a person felt their mom/relative was being talked about and they said they were ready to commit violence against the person who did the talking. Why?  Because you don't talk about someone's mom.  Why not?  Because in their world, mom is untouchable.  If you speak poorly of their mom, you're speaking against all they hold near and dear. Even if you told something that was true about someone's mom, if it made them look bad, you could be inviting a great deal of conflict. There's something deep about so...

You don't get to choose to be born or who you are born to.   It's one of the things in life that some people wonder about at some point.   We compare.  We imagine other paths we could have taken or could have been given.  We wonder. "Why was I born poor?"  Or vice versa. "Why was I born into this family?" "Why did I get this body?" "Why didn't I get the kind of life that is so appealing to me?" And the list can go on. __________ There's a place in scripture where we're told to "honor your father and mother so that things will go well with you and so you may live a long life". People have discussed what that means for a long time.   Is it a practical thing?  Does it mean that if you honor them, you'll do well because they've likely trained you and know the paths you should take that are best for where and when you exist?   That's probably part of it. Is it a threat from God that if you don't "hono...