Church hurt
Church hurt. It’s a thing. It’s pain caused by something related to and identified with a local church or even religion in general. Early on in deconstruction and rebuilding, it was something I “pulled out and set to the side" as a separate thing to look through. It didn’t take long to realize that it is, for many, a key feature of deconstruction since it’s often “the thing” that influences people to do a double-take at what they believe and to begin questioning. After I quit working for a church, the number of people that approached me with their church hurt was almost overwhelming. Probably not almost. It was overwhelming at times. I have heard stories of church politics, betrayal, deception, control, narcissistic leaders, sexism, ageism, racism, abuse of all kinds, and just about everything in-between. It’s a real thing and it comes in different forms and hits people differently. There’s a LOT of info online about it – some of it really ...